The Life of Jesus Starring Charlie (2015)

Jesus never sinned. Not even as a three year old.

This is difficult for me to imagine.

Have you ever seen a film where a character’s mind and body are being controlled by some other force? A magic spell, a brainwash, an evil robot, a venomous snakebite? They’re wreaking havoc on the city until someone says, “Friend! I know you’re in there! Can you hear me?! Snap out of it! This isn’t you! Come back to me!!!” You see a flash of recognition. Whoever is “in there” starts battling their abducted mind and body to break free and stop the crazy. In most cases, the “evil self” is defeated when someone believes in the hero enough to help them remember who they really are inside.

This is the only way I can make sense of Jesus as a threenager: A war between his fleshly urges and the nature of God within him.

Picture this:

Mary has made her famous Rum Raisin Cake {virgin version}, and has told 3-year-old Jesus, “Don’t touch the last piece here, baby, I’m saving it for Papa Joe.”

Jesus is tempted – he sees the cake. He wants the cake BADLY. He creeps to the counter and presses his squishy little nose up close enough to smell the cake. A bit of drool dribbles out of his open mouth he and gulps hard.

And the Holy Spirit is SHOUTINGSTOP THIS! I know you’re in there, Jesus!!!! Don’t throw it all away now!!! Snap out of it! YOU ARE GOD FOR CHRIST’S SAKE, YOU CAN OBEY YOUR FREAKING MOTHER!!!!

And this child… this singular child in history… takes a step backward… slowly… then another… and finally, exits the kitchen.

MAN! Do you think it was like that??? How else could it have happened? Did he run off to his room to cry over his disappointment? I think that’s possible – emotions can betray you, but they are never sin.

Each year I stop to reflect on the life of Jesus as a child. We have no records of these years, but we know he was human and God together. So I use my kids as a reference – what was Jesus like at their age? (Here are some thoughts from 2014, 2013, and 2012).

This year, my son Charlie was 2 ½ – 3 ½. Here are some things he did – can you imagine Jesus in a similar position at three years old? Reflect on his tender little preschooler heart. Maybe he didn’t do all of these (you know, GOD and all…), but I know he must have done some. What do you think?

This year, Charlie:

Met his baby brother.


Crashed through a huge snow castle he made with dad to rescue mom from the dragon.


First dentist appointment.

“Special Breakfast” dates with Mom on her days off.

Loved being read to and hearing the song Aunt Nette sings.


Picked out bouquets for Mom at the store with Dad.

Played in the pool all summer.

Attended vacation Bible school.

First Schutz Family Reunion and day at the lake.


Whining. Lots.

Applied rules to his mother that he learned at the babysitter. (No, Mommy does not have to keep her hands to herself).

Made his brother laugh like no one else.


Was always pulling over his stool to climb up on.

Learned how to “turn on” the charm *like his dad.*


Made up lots of words and sounds.

First fishing trip.


Lots of playing pretend.


Outgrew two sizes of socks and skipped a shoe size.

Helped with house projects and chores.

Called from his bed, “I’m awaaaake. It’s daytiiiime.”

Asked for fireworks all the time.


Made applesauce with Grampa.


First trick-or-treat.


Lots of creating and crafts.


Developed a love for game of tag.

“Played” with a toad until it… stopped… playing…


Escaped our view at the grocery store.

Potty trained.

Collected stones so he could kill giants like David.

Loved washing things (aka playing with soap and water).


Started choosing showers over baths.

Oh, the delay tactics…

Learned a *real* knock knock joke. (Interrupting cow wh-MOOOOOOOO).

Met a new friend at the playground and told her, “God is bigger than giants.”

Swallowed a magnet.


What have your kids done this year? Do you think Jesus did anything like that? I hope you’ll comment and give us all more to know him by.

Love, Carolyn (like singin’ at Christmastime!)

Luke 2:40 “And the child grew and became strong; he was filled with wisdom, and the grace of God was on him.”


About Carolyn Nelson

Just trying to spread a little grace. I am in love with 4 boys (married to one, mother to three), and I think you're stinkin' awesome.
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